Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Eye liner and a little mascara?

hey! and thanks in advance for helping me or at least trying to!


ok, well i'm 15 yrs old and my mom wont let me wear eye liner or mascara to school..she lets me over the weekends...but i wanna wear just eye liner 2 school.





how should i convince her? =[Eye liner and a little mascara?
First, be sure to have a reasonable discussion with her. No whining or fighting. Find out what her reasons are for letting you on the weekend but not to school. Are other girls at school your age wearing makeup?





Ask her if you can sit down and talk. Express to her that you would appreciate it if she would allow you to wear eye liner to school as you do on the weekend. Assure her that you won't go overboard on makeup and that it won't take your focus away from anything or make you run late getting ready in the morning.





Find out her reasons and see if you can compromise with her or reassure any fear she has of you wearing makeup. An open, honest and mature discussion can often get you far, and she will be proud of you for expressing yourself in an adult way.





Given your additional details, it sounds like your mom is trying to keep seeing you as a little girl. Explain to her that you are growing up and that you will use good judgment in dating and your social life. Makeup is not going to make you or break you in the guy department.





If she says ';You are going to school and not a party'; then ask her why she wears makeup to work. ;)Eye liner and a little mascara?
You have to follow the rules that your mother set in place. She has her reasoning and you are too young to question it or fight it. Don't worry. You'll have plenty of years of waking up early just to put on make-up later in life.
just tell her all ur friends wear it...n you will feel more conifedint if u wear eyeliner or sumthin..jus make somethin convincin upp
It is really up to your mom - mine was the same way until I turned 16. Then I wore a ton of the crap... My husband hates girls in eyeliner so now (just like when I was 15) I don't wear it. Try just some mascara (just a little) it looks more natural - maybe she won't know!!
Honestly? Depends on your relationship wih your Mom. The mature way to handle it would be to sit down and talk with her, tell her why it's important to you to be able to wear it to school, find out why it's important to her that you don't. Maybe you can compromise and she'll let you wear it for special school things or ask if you can wear it to school for two days a week and then talk about it again after a certain time.


Be sure to listen when she talks to you though and don't just get mad about it. I bet she has reasons and if you talk to her like the responsible teenager you want to be, she might consider it. Just don't try to sneak it past her. She'll find out - Mom's always do... good luck!
Get to school a little earlier than u usually do...sneak it in ur backpack and put it on in the school bathroom then take it off b4 u get home.
is she worried about you putting it on to heavy?(on the weekend) put on some eyeliner lightly (the same as what you would where to school) and ask her completely honest opinion. work from there. talk to her calmly even if she says no. and DON'T wear it to school if she says no because she might change her mind and let you wear it to school once you show responsibility by obeying her by NOT wearing it to school. who knows , it might work
Compromise. Like one of the other answers suggested, if you wear eyeshadow use that to line your eyes. However, I would say use one of the little sponge applicators that generally come with them, they deliver more color that the brush.





Another idea is clear mascara. You can find it here for a dollar (shipping is 5 dollars flat though but it's such a good deal so you might as well just get some new shadow or whatever while you're at it.):


http://www.eyeslipsface.com


http://www.elfcosmetics.com


It's the same company, someone was talking about it earlier, they're awesome.





Back to the clear mascara, it looks like you've got dark lashes already from your avatar, so it should be fine. If your mom's not ok with that you may be able to just put some vaseline on your lashes, it has basically the same effect although it won't stay on as well and isn't as healthy for your eyes.





If your mom really isn't ok with any of it after you have a good talk with her, just respect it--not the answer you were wanting, I know. But like they said you'll have plenty of years for that later ; )





Good luck hon hope that helped :)
don't worry about it, people aren't goign to like you more for wearing make up. Trust me, it's not worth the effort to do it every morning. She's probably aafraid that guys will make more passes at you and you'll have sex sooner because of all the pressure from getting the attention of trying to act older then you are
mmmm, i dunno, i would just put it on at school. or...one weekend, wear the sort of makeup you plan on wearing to school. show her that its not over the top, and ask her if you can wear it. you could do it VERY minimaly and then build up to as much as you like (but not too much!)
You know, my mom was that way too. . .but she's not doing it to be ';mean'; mom. What I would try is instead of lining your eyes with black liner, try brown because it's less dramatic or try lining your eyes with a brown shadow (or whatever colored shadow your wearing). Just get a really skinny brush applicator (look on www.elfcosmetics.com they have gobs of good stuff and it's all $1). Good Luck.
just take your make up with you to school and put it on in the school bath room thats what i do cuz my mother wont let me walk out the house with lipstick on so yea
this may not be the best if you leave or ur mom picks u up but if u go to school and back by urself then just wear it to school and wash it off GOOD when u get home or just tell her ur in high school and ur getting older and show signs of maturity
Hey well I'm not sure on how to convice since I don;t know your mom, but instead of wearing eyeliner you can use a darker eyeshadown and put it on your eyelashes (bottom and top) or a little below your eye. This will make it seem like your wearing eyeliner.

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